Oct 6, 2011 - "So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." Matt 19:6

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Where Is The LOVE?

What a weekend!!
Don't want one of those again.

Let me tell you that the drama never ends. Lol. One thing I learned. Sadly. My previous blog Family Reunion and/or seeing me just resulted in a whole lot of mess. Was what I wrote that bad? I didn't think so.


A good evening tarnished. I shouldn't have been surprised because I got what I was told I was going to get in the first place, just not in person. My hubby is always right! Unfortunately I couldn't share the comments because they were way too personal and inappropriate. They have nothing to do with my blog post. I say "they" because there were a couple from the same person. I guess one wasn't good enough. Trust me, I would have loved to share at least one of them so that people could see exactly what I was dealing with. Maybe when future comments are kept more relevant to the blog posts I can put them up. Oh, and let me mention the good (I think..lol), the messages were followed up with a phone call for the first time. Not sure why because nothing good came out of that either. Certainly not after the messages received. Makes me wonder why people do things sometimes? lol But, I wasn't the only one on the chopping block. The drama had to be shared with another person. Smh. I know we should share the LOVE but Where Is The Love?. Was there a full moon on the weekend? Lol. I'll have to google that. Had to go back to using Facebook BLOCKING because some people just aren't ready yet. Just sucks because we really shouldn't have to block people. Not being a Facebook Friend should be enough. Apparently it isn't. I know, I know..lesson learned...I should have never unblocked in the first place. Always got to look for the lesson in things. What was I thinking?

So yeah...it really was a long weekend with some time that was clearly wasted. Suffered a few migraines. Had a great moment on the phone with my mom though. It was the first time I remember in a long time actually having a real mom and daughter talk. (Like talking to mom about boys..lol) I've always tried to protect and not trouble my mom with certain things but talking to her after the drama started felt awesome. She had all the right things to say and gave great advice. What a moment! I thanked her for what she did because I know my moms heart. At the same time, she promised not to do it again. I made her! lol So she laughed and promised. Like I said, some people just aren't ready yet. lol I can't take the foolishness!!
But you know what.....I caught a No Frills $1, $2 and $3 Sale. Mannnn! I love those. The place was packed. It seems that after church several of us have the same idea of heading to the No Frills nearby because I am always running into fellow parishioners. lol I hadn't gone shopping since Furman left so I was due. Many people know that I hate shopping. I can never follow a list and always pick up way more than I need. I hate the crowd. My cousin says that shopping makes her feel better sometimes. lol I don't see it. I really don't. Is it the act of shopping that's the feel good or the actual purchase of something new? Hmmm. I might have to try that just once. Wouldn't want it to be a habit though. That could get expensive. But, I actually know that my husband would love for me to go out and pamper myself with some new items. lol I see the mall in my future.

I'm really missing my husband though. Lonely Without Furman.
It's going to be a long three weeks.
Have no plans for the week other than working and working out. Oh...and a night of Bingo with mom. Can't wait to see her and give her a big hug! In fact, I think I need to make sure and see my auntie this week too. I think she deserves a hug. lol

Anyways....I hope everyone had a better weekend than I did and is ready for an even better week.
Like I said before...that's how good God is...we always get a new day, a new week, a new month, a new year....it's just never promised to us.

Remember....kids are back to school.
Keep those eyes open on the roads.
We all love our children.


  1. All Im gonna say is you cant pick family. They are what they are!!! And sometimes I wonder if they can actually change. You can only control your own reaction to their nonsense.


    1. I love my family. Each and every one of them. Just hate the nonsense that we all go through. Every single one of us. But I know...it helps to build character...and from what i'm told...i'm definitely a character. hahahaha Thanks Nicole. I will watch my reactions because some things will never change. At least it seems that way sometimes.


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